Tips for an effective and ethical negotiation 
Approaches based on interests, versus position, work best
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Published: November 30, 2011
Tags: ADR, Practice Tips
The role of business counsel is complex. The lawyer has to not only produce a legal and enforceable negotiated agreement, but also must try to get the best deal for clients while conducting the negotiation in a way that reflects positively on them.
The most ethical and effective approach to negotiation is not one that is ...
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